For a more intimate setting, host an elegant garden tea party. Delicate sandwiches, scones, and fine tea set a relaxing yet upscale tone, perfect for a sunny afternoon celebration. 11.

A three-tiered masterpiece adorned with edible flowers. But the best part? The topper read "70 & Still Sparkling," which might be the most accurate description of Bea we’ve ever heard.

(e.g., specific decorations, a surprise guest, a theme).

The party kicked off at 6 p.m. sharp at the old Grange Hall, which Bea had transformed into a cross between a Studio 54 fever dream and a very well-organized living room. Think mirrored disco balls hanging next to hand-knitted bunting. Think a cheese plate arranged with the precision of a NASA launch, next to a bathtub full of rosé.

: Cocktail arrival, background jazz music, and initial mingling.

: Choose a concept that defies age expectations, leaning into high-glam decor, vibrant color schemes, or Hollywood red-carpet aesthetics.

: Provide high-end versions of classic childhood sweets, such as gourmet artisanal fondue or scratch-made retro pastries.

Rent a karaoke machine and let guests serenade the guest of honor with her favorite songs from the '50s and '60s or the disco hits of her 20s. It’s a fantastic icebreaker and a guaranteed laugh when family members belt out a classic.

The invitation said “Attire: Fabulous.” It did not say “no dancing on the furniture,” which, in retrospect, was an oversight.